Behind the Memoir: Writing Pick Up Your Own Damn Crutch
Anthony shares the intimate process of turning decades of trials and triumphs into a powerful narrative—what inspired each chapter and the challenges of writing with cerebral palsy.
In Pick Up Your Own Damn Crutch, Tony “the Tiger” Green works through decades of trials—from brain surgeries and deep shadows of depression to moments of laughter—offering a heartfelt guide on self-respect, faith, and finding strength in life’s toughest battles.
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Feel uplifted by a story of hope, perseverance, and the everyday courage to pick up your own damn crutch.
Hi, readers. I am Tony "the Tiger" Green. I have written this book, Pick Up Your Own Damn Crutch, for several reasons. It helps me work out mentally, the trials I have been through, allowing me to put in perspective regarding my life. There have been many good times in my life, and humorous times. I also hope my story will help others deal with their life trials, whether it is surgery/pain, mental illness/depression, or relationship/loneliness. I have always said, "Everyone is different, but we all have our strengths".
Respecting yourself is very important. Life can be more joyous if you respect others for who they are and care for their needs. This will always make you feel better about yourself.
I believe God, our Creator, put each one of us here to write our own story. We are here in this wonderful world God had given us. We need to appreciate all and take care of the gifts that we have family, friends, and our environment and help lift those who are less fortunate.
You might wonder how I named this book. It starts with a trip to McDonald's with Mom and her best friend Lani Collins. I was 7 years old. Mom and Papa were always telling me to be careful and take care of my things. They would say don't depend on someone to help you!
They were a lot of old people who were there eating too and they kept watching us. When we were eating, Mom told me again to be careful with my crutches and don't let them fall. After we ate and it was time to go, Mom told me again to get my crutches. When Mom and Lani reached the door, they looked back to make sure I was coming. As they looked, I dropped my crutches and said "Mom"! She yelled loud and everyone heard her say "Pick Up Your Own Damn Crutch!" All the people were shocked and Lani ran out the door because she was embarrassed. Ha ha ha! It has always been one of my favorite stories. I laugh about all the time with my family.
There is no such thing as a perfect life. We all face moments when we feel like giving up, especially in today's demanding world. But amidst the difficulties, there is a profound truth: you hold the key to your own happiness. This book serves as a gentle reminder that even when life presents its challenges, you have the power to thrive and appreciate each day that comes your way.
Born with CP, a disorder that affects a person's ability to move and maintain balance and posture, Tony Green wants you to know that you are unstoppable. For 34 years, he has been living with the disorder. CP presented countless hurdles throughout Tony's life. It’s been one surgery after another, one therapy session after another; depression came attacking from every corner, but he held on. Unable to walk independently and burdened with a hearing disability, it was all a handful, and he confronted those difficulties. “Tony the Tiger” continues to pursue his passion and finds comfort in doing the things he loves and being around the people he cherishes.
Above all, this book unveils the secret to finding happiness even in the toughest times. It highlights the importance of family and surrounding oneself with the right company, for these are the greatest gifts life has to offer. Challenges will undoubtedly test your resilience, but remember, no illness or financial hardship can extinguish your aspirations. It’s going to fall down even in the tightest grip, but what are you going to do? You have got to pick up your damn crutches!
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Anthony shares the intimate process of turning decades of trials and triumphs into a powerful narrative—what inspired each chapter and the challenges of writing with cerebral palsy.